Posted by: pastorapbell | July 11, 2010

as we learn to keep in confidence what we have been told

A man who lacks judgment derides his neighbour, but a man of understanding holds his tongue. A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret (Proverbs 11:12-13 NIV).

A wise person is characterised by their ability to know how to safeguard others by keeping things that could ruin another person in their heart. On the contrary, a fool discloses everything even to their own detriment. Becoming someone who is trustworthy requires insight and understanding and this takes time to develop. It is during the development phase that the true character of the individual is revealed.

foot in mouth

An essential part of becoming a pillar in the community is to be someone who is trustworthy. People will soon know who they can and cannot trust by the way word goes around. You can try it. Tell someone who you know cannot keep a secret and sure enough it will make its way back to you sooner than you could imagine.

Being wise enables you to hold your tongue, it is the fool that speaks and condemns themselves; that is, they open their mouths and put their foot in it!

Today, practice the art of silence. Remember there are three things that cannot be retracted viz; a spent arrow a spoken words and a missed opportunity. Weigh your words and keep what has been entrusted to you, this is wisdom.

Read Proverbs 11

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 10, 2010

as we take heed to instruction(s)

Do not reprove a scoffer or he will hate you, reprove a wise man and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man and he will be still wiser, teach a righteous man and he will increase his learning. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Proverbs 10:8-10 NASB).

discipline is a way of life

Today we are encouraged to act after we have been reproved. Reprove is an old Latin word that has its genesis in the reproved being in disagreement with what the one being reproved is doing. In essence we are being encouraged to listen to wisdom and modify our behaviour accordingly.

He tells us that a scoffer, someone who is cynical and self-opinionated, will hold you in contempt. The contemptuous are wise in their own eyes, they always do their own things and only repent when they find their mouths in the trough beside the pigs.

Our sage tells us that rebuke, reprove, correction, chastisement, castigation and criticism are all for the good of the one being chastened. Indeed the writer of Hebrews tells us that the father who loves his son will chasten him, although when chastening is taken place, the son does not like or may not even fully understand it (Heb 12:8). And this chastening, although painful at the time will reap a harvest of righteousness. Some translations use the word discipline instead of reprove. Discipline actually means training or teaching rather than the classical Victorian colonial understanding of beating. Once we develop a methodology of learning through discipline we will then fear the Lord and in his eyes become wise.

Read Proverbs 10

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 9, 2010

as we listen when wisdom calls

Does not wisdom call and understanding lift up her voice? On top of the heights beside the way where the paths meet, she takes her stand. Listen and I will speak noble things and the opening of my lips will reveal right things (Proverbs 8:1, 2&6 NASB).

Listening is a skill that must be developed. We can hear without listening. How is this possible you may ask? Without understanding what was said it just becomes wind. For wisdom to become active it must be flavoured with understanding and done in righteousness. So our sage tells us that instruction and knowledge is more desirable than silver or pure gold (v.10).  And that wisdom lives with prudence and discretion. These are traits that we should cherish and develop in our character set as they, prudence and discretion, encourages one to make right decisions for the right reasons.

he saw their faith

Our mentor tells us that wisdom was there before it all began. Before anything was created wisdom was there. And when the creation started wisdom was there in attendance (v.22-31). In other words wisdom is the word, the logos which became flesh and lived among us. His remit was and is to bring liberation and transformation to all who come to him. He was and is able to see the intangible and do the unthinkable. So in Mark’s gospel 2:1-12 we see Jesus as wisdom seeing the faith of friends of a paralysed man who took the roof off to get him in Jesus’ presence. And we hear him forgiving the paralytic’s sins, v.5 and healing him v.11.

This echoes what our sage concludes with in v.35 of his machinations to us today. “For he who finds me finds life and obtains favour from the Lord.”

Today find wisdom and you will obtain favour from the Lord.

Read Proverbs 8

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 8, 2010

As we avoid the snare of the seducers

My child, keep my words and store up my commandments with you; bind them on your fingers and write them on the tablet of your heart. Say to wisdom you are my sister and call understanding your intimate friend that they may keep you from the loose woman from the adulteress with her smooth words, Proverbs (7:1, 3-5 NRSV).

Although our writer describes the seducer as a woman and an adulteress the underlying notion he is speaking about is the spirit behind someone who flirts with the people whose desire it is to follow God. As a Christian we ought to recognise that it is only after you have confessed Jesus with your mouth and given your vow/pledge to follow him for the rest of your life that certain people with whom you had relationships with in the past, be they tentative or intimate, comes out of the woodwork, so to speak. If they came to encourage your walk with the Lord it would not be too bad, but they come to get you to do everything and go everywhere that has nothing to do with your calling.

This is the spirit of adultery. It comes to distract you and to interrupt your walk. As a young Christian you are particularly susceptible to this spirit and so our sage warns us about him/her.

To guard against this spirit, the first thing you must do is store up the commandment of the Lord inside you. Simply put, it means to know the word of the lord, not just parrot fashion but ask the Lord to give you revelation so you understand the word in context.

This may require you to undergo a season of prayer and fasting [1/2 day, 1day, 3days, 21 or 40 days]. An example of this is Daniel; when confronted with the spirit death, he went into a time of prayer and fasting to know what to do (Dan 2:18, 22). And God revealed to him what he ought to do.

The most prevalent spirit seducing our young people today is the spirit of sexual immorality. Like in the time of our sage ‘she’ entices our young and gets them to commit themselves, after which they have nowhere to go except to run from what the Lord has called them to do.

Today let us listen to the Lord. Whenever you are faced with those who come with sweet words, have in the back of your mind that they may come with the seducing spirit. So, before agreeing to do anything, check to see if their words line up with what God has said. Even if it does, seek advice from your mentor or the person you are accountable to spiritually. They will then instruct you on the way you should go as the Lord leads. This is wisdom!

Read Proverbs 7

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 7, 2010

As we annotate the things that are abominable to the Lord!

There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him:

Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that hurry to run to evil, a lying witness that testifies falsely, and one who sow discord in a family (Proverbs 6:16-19 NRSV).

When the wisdom writer lists the things that God hates what exactly does he mean? Does he mean that God harbours hate in his heart towards those who violate one of the above or is he trying to get us to learn about righteous indignation?

From myriad of scripture we know that God is a loving, merciful and forgiving God. We also know that he is a righteous and just God, therefore he expects his followers to say the right things so that we can act in the right way without the fear of any recrimination. So what is this sage saying?

The first thing he insists on is that God is far from the proud. Those who are haughty are proud and loud and can achieve everything themselves, therefore they do not need God. Secondly, those who distort the truth irk God since they try to convince others that there is another way to the father other than through Jesus who is truth and life. Believing a lie causes people to do wicked things. Today, as we remember those who perished or were maimed in the tube bombings in London, we can only reflect and ask the question why? What was that all about? What was the point of killing innocent people?

Lastly, our mentor tells us that God hates those who sow discord in the family. These are people who want to belong to the family and have all the characteristics of the family, but out of stubbornness, past hurts and lack of understanding, causes chaos by using their charm and things they can do to achieve goals rather than allowing the Holy Spirit to work in them.

For today, guard your heart and mitigate against the pride of live. In essence, humble yourself and God will exalt you in due course.

Read Proverbs 6

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 6, 2010

As we learn to recognise those who deal in iniquity

For the lips of an adulteress drip honey,
       and her speech is smoother than oil;

but in the end she is bitter as gall,
       sharp as a double-edged sword.

Her feet go down to death;
       her steps lead straight to the grave (Proverbs 5:3-5 NIV).

As we develop a spirit of discernment the Lord will bring people into our circle that will enable us to heighten our capacity to discern. Once we understand that there are many people who worship and serve other gods, we can then understand that they will be out to seduce us. And sometimes they are so blatant that it beggars belief. Wisdom teaches us that even though their lips are dripping with honey, that is their speech and use of words are so sweet, there is an underlying sense of mischief in all that they do.

This is how witches work. They try to infiltrate the house of God by performing and getting into positions of trust so that they can manipulate and control what goes so as to subvert what God wants to do.

So wisdom dictates that we look beyond the sweet words and the flapping eyelids and examine the substance behind what the deceiver is saying and doing. Workers of iniquity do so in private and in public they are helpful, polite and always available. Iniquity is defined as gross injustice or disobedience of what God says.

An adulteress is one who lives at home but plays away often. The writer tells us exactly where one will be led if they follow her. To avoid this we must tune in to the word, recognise the voice of deception and shun it for it will lead to death and hell. 

Sweet words are God’s words, listen to them.

Read Proverbs 5

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 5, 2010

As we reap the physical benefits of wise counsel

My son, pay attention to what I say; listen closely to my words. Do not let them out of your sight; keep them within your heart; for they are life to those who find them and health to a man’s whole body (Proverbs 4:20-22 NIV).

Today we learn that wise counsel impinges on all areas of our lives. The way one thinks determines how they behave and that then has a massive impact on their physical and emotional wellbeing. So the sage encourages his children to listen closely to all of his words and to keep to them close to his heart.

Many people have lost their lives because of stubbornness. This is the inability to follow simple instructions. Many relationships have broken down because of the inability of the participants to listen to wise counsel.  And many people have suffered physical defects because they chose to disregard the counsel of interested counsellors. In sports there are in-build precautions to try to prevent injury to sportsmen and women. For example, in formula one, when the weather is foul they have a safety car which drives in front. When a footballer is injured they are withdrawn from the game. These actions are taken to preserve lives and extend careers.

Today we are encouraged to pay close attention to words of wisdom as they ensure that our physical, emotional and physical wellbeing are preserved.

We are physical, emotional and spiritual beings, and one state cannot be separated from the other, they are all interconnected. So what we think affects how we feel and what we eat affects how we relate to our creator. Remember that our bodies are the temple that houses the Holy Spirit, when we receive him. Therefore the onus is on us to maintain our bodies in a healthy manner.

Read proverbs 4

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 4, 2010

As we find our security in the Lord

If you sit down you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet. Do not be afraid of sudden panic, or of the storm that strikes the wicked; for the Lord will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught (Proverbs 3:24-26).

Rest in the Lord

 

Today we are being asked the question, where do we find our security? Most of us never think about this question as we tend to trust in the things that we can see.  However, the writer of Proverbs gives us a few nuggets to consider.

  1. 1.If you were to put your security in riches then you could be faced with a major problem. One of those problems would be; how do I stop people from pilfering, stealing or from ripping me off?
  2. If I were to put my confidence in humanity then I could be faced with the uncertainty that changes in mood swings bring.
  3.  If I were to put my trust in my properties, then I could spend all my life safeguarding them and for many they could become a prisoner in the very property in which they put their trust.

For the wise, real security comes from resting in the Lord. When we do this he is obliged to guard and watch over us, to assign his angels to protect us and to keep us in all our ways even when we dash our foot against a stone. The Lord causes us to rest in peace ensuring that we have sweet rest even in the midst of uncertainty.

Read Proverbs 3:21-35.

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 3, 2010

As learn to lean on the Lord

 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV).

 

 

trust in the father

Wisdom comes from understanding what God wants for you. The whole of humanity is searching for the elixir of life. And the perennial question that is asked is; why am I here and what is the meaning of life?

Without understanding that all of us are here for a reason and all of us have a purpose to fulfil, we will take wrong turnings and make wrong decisions, which will affect us for the rest of our lives. The writer of Proverbs tell us to trust in the Lord; Why? You may ask. Well, he was and is and will be. He is the all knowing all seeing God who is in control, although he gives us free choice! It is his will and his ways that dictates that we have great success in all that we do. Our ways are naturally rebellious.

The writer of proverbs knew this well. When he was chosen by God to be elevated, instead of asking for riches and power, he asked for wisdom and understanding. So he encourages us to trust in the Lord because our understanding is flawed. And ask him to show us the plain narrow path, because we will tend to go down the Broadway. Once we have understanding and knowledge that comes from God, then wealth, riches and influence will follow.

Today get it right. Lean on God, ask him what he would do in your position and then follow his leading. He will send the right person to speak the truth in your hearing and if you follow what you have heard, it will change your life.

Read Proverbs 3

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Posted by: pastorapbell | July 2, 2010

As we develop a lifestyle governed by wisdom

“How long will you simple ones love your simple ways? How long will mockers delight in mockery and fools hate knowledge? For the waywardness of the simple will kill them: and the complacency of fools will destroy them; but whoever listens to me will live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm“ (Proverbs 1:22, 32-33 NIV).

a clown

One of the most debilitating things in life is to live in ignorance and revel in it. Ignorance is the antithesis to wisdom and it is even further from the wisdom that comes from God. There are so many people in the world today who live in poverty, destroy their relationships and end up isolated and rejected because they failed to understand the keys to living a fruitful successful life.

Success means different things to different people. For many it is having lots of money while for others it is being held in high esteem by others. For the believer in Jesus it is to know that you are a friend of God (James 2:23). As a friend of God our lives are then predicated by what he wants for us. This is the crux of the matter for many people, they just do not know what God wants for them or requires from them. And end up living in ignorance never able to fulfil their immense potential.

For the wise then, this is what Micah says that God requires of us in 6:8 from the Message version;

“But he’s already made it plain how to live, what to do,
 what God is looking for in men and women.
It’s quite simple: Do what is fair and just to your neighbour,
be compassionate and loyal in your love,
And don’t take yourself too seriously—
take God seriously.”

Don’t stay in ignorance, recognise the hero inside of you and develop him or her!

Read Proverbs 2

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